Our plan of having a no-spend Valentine's Day was a fantastic idea. I made a Valentine's Day card for Robert, complete with a sentimental picture of us. Robert won two tickets to Fresno State's Women's Basketball on Saturday after calling into a radio station on Valentine's Day. I went to Moms Time Out with Rebecca, and heard a couple who has been married for 43 years talk about marriage, parenthood, and life. A lot of what they said clicked for me- the challenges we face, working together as a family, having couple time. As we sat together watching Courageous together that evening, it clicked too. Valentine's Day was not about spending money, or buying each other gifts. For us, its remembering how blessed we are to have each other.