There's some things I just can't stand-cowardly behavior. Yes, its one thing to be scared out of your mind-its another thing to be a coward. The defining line is when it affects other people, and breaks hearts and dreams. Age and wisdom come into play too-and as such maybe I'm being hard on her, but dang it she's 33 or 34, and supposedly intelligent. However, her recent actions speak otherwise. I can't go into details right now without getting super emotional, and can only pray for those involved.